Wedding Expense Tracker — Both of You, One Shared Sheet

Step 1 — Sign up and pick "Wedding" in the setup wizard

Your Google Sheet gets pre-configured automatically with the 5-tag wedding bundle. No template to copy, no formulas to wire up — the wizard does it.

Step 2 — Add your partner's email during the 30-second setup wizard

The wizard prompts you for your partner's email right there — paste it in and you're done. Any receipt they forward from their Gmail lands in the same shared Wedding sheet. No second login. No separate account. No "did you remember to log that?" text messages.

Step 3 — Forward receipts or let nightly auto-scan find them

Forward a receipt with TAG:Bride in the subject and it's auto-categorized. Or do nothing — the nightly Gmail auto-scan finds wedding-tagged emails overnight and drops them in for you.

Attire & Beauty

Dress, suit, hair, makeup, alterations

Venue & Catering

The largest bucket for most weddings

Vendors

Photographer, DJ, florist, officiant

Stationery & Gifts

Invites, save-the-dates, favors

Honeymoon

Flights, hotels, excursions

Auto-categorization

The 5-tag wedding bundle explodes one "Wedding" intent into five sub-buckets automatically. You don't sort.

Partner shares — no second account

Alias forwarding. Your partner's Gmail sends to the same shared Wedding sheet. No extra login.

Daily Gmail auto-scan

Finds receipts neither of you remembered to forward. Runs overnight.

Budget Report with paid-by reconciliation

One-click specialized report: budget vs actuals, paid-by split, top line items, monthly burn.

Step 1: Agree on a Total Budget

Sit down with everyone contributing financially — your partner, parents, or anyone else — and agree on a hard ceiling. This is the single most important step. Without a firm number, category budgets become meaningless. Write it at the top of your spreadsheet and do not change it unless all parties agree.

Step 2: Break It Down by Category

Use the wedding budget planner table above as your starting framework. Allocate a percentage of your total budget to each category. Be honest about your priorities — if you care more about food than flowers, shift the percentages accordingly. The goal is to have every dollar assigned before you spend any of it.

Step 3: Create a Tracking Spreadsheet

ExpenseBot creates this Google Sheet for you when you pick "Wedding" in the setup wizard, with columns for Category, Vendor, Amount, Date, Tag, Paid-By, and Notes pre-configured. If you'd rather roll your own, build a sheet with those same columns. Google Sheets works well because both partners can edit simultaneously from any device, and you can share view-only access with family.

Step 4: Log Every Payment in Real Time

This is where most couples fall behind. The moment you pay a deposit, sign a contract, or swipe a card for wedding supplies, open your spreadsheet and record it. Delayed entry leads to forgotten expenses, which leads to budget overruns. Set a rule: if it is not in the sheet, it did not happen.

Step 5: Review Weekly as the Date Approaches

In the early months of planning, a bi-weekly budget review is enough. Once you are within three months of the wedding, switch to weekly. Compare actual spending to your category budgets, flag any categories trending over, and make adjustments before it is too late. This 15-minute check-in prevents the kind of last-month panic that turns a $30,000 wedding into a $38,000 one.

Step 6: Reconcile After the Wedding

Within a week of the wedding, do a final pass through your spreadsheet. Confirm all final invoices match your estimates, check for any outstanding balances, and verify that family contributions have been received. This final reconciliation ensures you start married life with a clear financial picture — no surprise vendor invoices arriving months later.

Step 1: Create your Wedding tag with the AI tag wizard (30 seconds)

Open the Tags modal in ExpenseBot, click "Create with AI", and just type "wedding expenses" — that's it. The tag wizard builds a full Wedding tag with the merchants and category rules it takes to catch every wedding-related receipt: venues, caterers, florists, photographers, videographers, DJs, bakeries, bridal shops, tux rentals, stationers, jewellers, travel for the honeymoon, and so on. You don't maintain a merchant list. The AI does it for you.

Step 2: Every day, your Gmail gets scanned automatically

From this point forward, you do nothing. ExpenseBot scans your Gmail every day in the background, finds any receipt that touches the Wedding tag's rules, and drops it into your Google Sheet automatically — with the vendor, amount, date, and category already filled in. You'll open your spreadsheet one evening and notice that the $800 dress deposit, the $1,200 venue balance, and the $340 florist hold from the past week are already there, tagged "Wedding," ready to reconcile. You did not touch the spreadsheet once.

Step 2b: Let your partner track too — no second account needed

Here's the thing no other wedding budget tool does: your partner doesn't need their own ExpenseBot account. Add their email during the setup wizard (or anytime later from Settings → Forwarding Email Addresses), and any receipt they forward from their Gmail lands in the same shared spreadsheet. No signup, no second subscription, no "did you remember to log that?" text messages. His Best Buy order for rehearsal-dinner speakers, her Etsy stationery order, their joint Airbnb honeymoon booking — all three forward to ExpenseBot from three different email addresses, all three land in the same Wedding spreadsheet. This is the collaborative piece that makes a shared wedding budget actually shared.

Step 3: Use sub-tags to split Bride, Groom, Honeymoon, Bachelorette, or anything else

Once you're forwarding receipts — or the auto-scan is catching them — sub-tags let you split the wedding budget by who or by category. The easiest path is putting the sub-tag right in the email subject line when you forward: forward your dress boutique receipt with subject Tag:Bride and it's categorized under Bride. Your partner forwards the tux rental receipt with subject Tag:Groom and that one lands under Groom. Hotel booking confirmation? Forward with Tag:Honeymoon in the subject. Same trick for Tag:Rehearsal, Tag:Bachelorette, or any other grouping — just stick it in the subject line.

For paper receipts: photograph the receipt, write "Tag:Groom" directly on it (or scrawl it on a sticky note in the photo), and email the photo. The AI reads the handwritten tag and files the expense under that sub-tag. Useful for in-person vendor checks — florist deposit slip, cake tasting receipt, jeweller's sizing invoice — anything that wasn't digital.

Step 3b: Use cash: for vendor deposits paid by cash or check

Wedding planning is surprisingly cash-heavy. The venue wants an $800 cash deposit. The florist takes a $400 check to hold your date. The DJ asks for a $300 cash retainer. The officiant's honorarium might be handed over in an envelope. None of these generate an email receipt — and photographing a handwritten receipt is clunky.

The fix: email ExpenseBot a short note with cash: in the subject. Example:

ExpenseBot parses the amount from the subject, tags it Wedding, dates it today, and logs the vendor and note into your spreadsheet — exactly like a scanned email receipt. Stack sub-tags too: cash: $300 DJ retainer TAG:Wedding TAG:Groom routes the expense to both Wedding and Groom. Works for checks the same way — the payment method just becomes part of the note.

Step 4: Select a tag when tracking — or let the AI do it

If you ever add a receipt through the web interface directly (rare — the email-forward path above handles almost everything), a tag dropdown is there so you can pick Wedding, Bride, Groom, Honeymoon, etc. from a list. Most of the time you won't need to — the auto-scan, the email subject sub-tags, and the cash: command handle it. But the dropdown is there when you want fine-grained control.

Step 5: Generate reports by tag for your partner, parents, or planner

When you want a status update — or when your parents ask "where are we with the budget?" — generate a Report by Tag. Pick Wedding for the whole-wedding roll-up, or Bride, Groom, Honeymoon, or any sub-tag for a filtered view. The report comes out as a clean Google Sheet: line items by vendor and date, subtotals by category, grand total at the top, link to every original receipt. Share the sheet link by email, open it on your phone at a venue visit, or print it out for a budget meeting.

Why tags matter for wedding budgets specifically

Wedding expenses don't fit cleanly into one category system. A single vendor (a venue) might host both the ceremony and the reception. Photography overlaps with videography. The honeymoon is technically a separate trip but paid from the same budget envelope. Tags let you cut the data multiple ways without re-entering anything: the same receipt can be tagged Wedding + Bride + Honeymoon if all three apply. When report-time comes, filter by whichever lens makes sense — total cost, who paid, or which part of the weekend it was for.